Strong black man or strong sex object?
Are black men feeding into their objectification by white women?
Top 5 reasons why white women ”love” black men:
1. “Rhythm in Bed”
( They said black men give them good sex…one person pointed out that, her white ex-partner was a 5 minutes man.)
2. “The skin”
( apparently black skin on white is “lovely” it feels great on white skin…)
3. “Treat them right”
( That black men treat them right and give them respect )
4. “Confidence”
( That black men carry themselves with grace , they have grand presence)
5. “They are healthy “
( That black men take good care of their skin, they shower etc)
The audience in the attached youtube I think is one of the most honest and respectful I have listened to in a while. Many times, this topic becomes so heated to the extent that you don’t get the opportunity to hear what folks are talking about.
Heidi Klum says, Seal has a big cock....
Questions that this topic raises:
1. As it relates to reason # 3 white women claim that black men treat them right and give them respect. Are black women missing something because most of the cries I hear from them is about how, black men are disrespectful and treat them like shit. So if white women generally are claiming that black men treat them with respect, is it safe to say that black men consider white women more valuable than black women? Or we could say, some black men internalized self-hate, that they don’t see their black counterpart as equals to whites.
2. Are black men only good for sex? Because 99% of the white women in the clip agreed that black men scored high in sex.
3. Are these claims by white women relevant today?
4. Are white women and black men in interracial relationship promoting racist- white supremacists stereotype about black men? Limiting them to sex objects with no intellect to create and lead ….
For further reflections…
see the link below…”Rent A Rasta/Dread” a documentary that highlights how some white women, would travel overseas to predominately black countries for sex toursim. One could say, they are again, perpetuating the belief that black men are highly sexual compare to their white counterparts. Limiting black men to sex.
also see Seal’s response on his German wife’s ( Heide Klum ) comment about his big cock.
and lastly but not limited to…see an article by Susan Crain Bakos, \” A White Woman Explains Why she Prefers Black Men……\”
Quoting Bakos,
“Black men have more energy, style and edge than white men. They know how to flirt, a nearly lost art among the rest of us. A black man is so damned sexy because he knows how to make a woman feel sexy….
Black men have something white guys don’t have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they’re men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired. I can let go of my inhibitions, my need to control, when I am with them. How many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish her too?”
note: The first picture is from womanist mustings and the second one is from google.com…
