What Racism does to African-American women (black people) in the United States of America.

The video above explains the disparities of infant mortality between blacks and Whites. Here is the summary as researched by gynecologist Dr. Michael Lu:

A. White Women with college education, per thousand (1000) birth = four (4) death.

B. African-American ( black) women with college education and above as white women, per thousand (1000) birth = ten ( 10) death.

C.Educated African-American ( black) women for example lawyers, professors, accountants, physicians, have higher infant death rate than whites and Hispanics without high school/ secondary certificate.

Now even when the children are born, many times they are delivered prematurely or with disorder. Neonatologists Dr. James Collins and Dr. Richard David examined, why is it that many African- American children often are born smaller, premature, than white Children. Below they provide us with findings that complement Dr. Lu’s research.

Prior to this research, suggestions have been made that the reason why many African-Americans have infant mortality and premature birth were:

1. Lack of Education

2. Poverty

3. Careless life style

However, both research have shown that, in fact those hypothesis were generally faulty. The major element in infant mortality and premature birth amongst African-Americans ( blacks) boils down to “collective racism” or institutional racism. Since the arrival of Africans on the slave ships, they have been labeled by white Europeans/Americans as sub-human and that their bodies were only good to serve. Through out American history, Africans who today are called African-Americans had to deal with discrimination in almost every aspect of their lives, from their traditional religions to their bodies to their language to their accent to their intellect etc. Today, somethings have changed because African-Americans had to fight for their basic human rights in America. However, the legacy of racism ( white-supremacy) is still present in American governmental structure in their schools, hospitals, churches which in many ways contribute to the stress and health issues that the two videos above explain.

What is the way forward

1. Personal Care, before you are with child as suggested by Dr. Lu and I agree completely. ( take care of your body, eat heathy, dress well to feel good about your self, do things that generally make you happy etc)

2. Surround yourself with positive people who love and respect you (embrace those who truly love and wish you best….)

3. Shun bad belle people ( run away from racists)

4. Partners/husbands should offer more help to their pregnant women, don’t allow them to work too hard, adding to their stress.

5. African-Americans collectively in every field, walks of life- should continue to speak out against racism, thus far it has been the best move.

6. Always remember, your ancestors have gone through hell yet they fought to paved the way for you. And you are not alone, because as Africans, we believe that our ancestors are in constant participation with the physical. Remember, “Africans don’t die but multiple”, invoke their names to come to your aid. They have done it even before their was any religion on earth and they will not abandon you now!

7. And finally, I think this quote from Milton Allimadi is great for us all to digest…..

“When you’re faced with serious challenges, obstacles, decisions, put things in perspective, then think about how your personal hero would have dealt with it. Your mother…. your father… Malcolm X, [Kimpa Vita ] Dr. King, FannieLou Hamer, Nehanda the warrior, Sojourner Truth, Tchaka, Biko, Robeson, Toussaint, Lumumba, Mandela, Kwame Ture…….then make your personal wise decision….and move on knowing your challenges pale in comparison to challenges that have been met in the past….”

Reasons Why White Women Prefer Black Men…..

Strong black man or strong sex object?

Are black men feeding into their objectification by white women?

Top 5 reasons  why white women  ”love” black men:

1. “Rhythm in Bed”
( They said black men give them good sex…one person pointed out that, her white ex-partner was a 5 minutes man.)

2. “The skin”
( apparently black  skin on white is “lovely” it feels great on white skin…)

3. “Treat them right”
( That black men treat them right and give them respect )

4. “Confidence”
(  That black men carry themselves with grace , they have grand presence)

5. “They are healthy “
(  That black men take  good care of their skin, they shower  etc)

The audience in the attached youtube I think is one of the most  honest and respectful  I have listened to in a while. Many times, this topic becomes so heated to the extent that you don’t get the opportunity to hear what folks are talking about.

Heidi Klum says, Seal has a big cock....

Questions that this topic raises:

1. As it relates to reason # 3  white women claim that black men treat them right and give them respect. Are black women missing something because most of the cries I hear from  them is about how, black men are disrespectful and treat them like shit. So if white women generally are claiming that black men treat them with respect, is it safe to  say that black men consider white women more valuable than black women? Or we could say,  some black men internalized self-hate, that they don’t see their black counterpart as equals to whites.

2. Are black men only good for sex? Because 99% of the white women in the clip agreed that black men scored high in sex.

3. Are these claims  by white women relevant today?

4.  Are white women and black men in interracial relationship promoting racist- white supremacists stereotype about black men? Limiting them to  sex objects with no intellect to create and lead ….

For further reflections…

see the link below…”Rent A Rasta/Dread”  a documentary that highlights how some white women, would travel overseas to predominately black countries for sex toursim. One could say, they are again, perpetuating the belief that black men are highly sexual compare to their white counterparts. Limiting black men to sex.

also  see Seal’s response on his German wife’s ( Heide Klum ) comment about his big cock.

and lastly but not limited to…see an article by Susan Crain Bakos, \” A White Woman Explains Why she Prefers Black Men……\”

Quoting Bakos,

“Black men have more energy, style and edge than white men. They know how to flirt, a nearly lost art among the rest of us. A black man is so damned sexy because he knows how to make a woman feel sexy….

Black men have something white guys don’t have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they’re men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired. I can let go of my inhibitions, my need to control, when I am with them. How many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish her too?”

note: The first picture is from womanist mustings and the second one is from google.com…